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The Chimp Paradox: The Mind Management Program to Help You Achieve Success, Confidence, and Happiness by Steve Peters was one of my vacation reads. Huddled under the mosquito
netting deep in the bush, wildly waving a type of tennis racket that emits an electrical shock to annihilate mosquitoes; it’s very easy to believe that there
is indeed a portion of my brain called The Chimp.
Nope, not much of a
stretch at all. My chimp was occupied doing a type of 21st Century
bug picking.
The writer, Steve
Peters, explains that he’s very much simplifying the human brain while
exploring the psychological mind. He cuts it into three main parts to start. The
idea is that we all have a limbic brain—an emotional machine he refers to as
the chimp—and a human brain—maybe best summed up as higher thinking—and also
what he refers to as the computer part of your brain—think of that as
information and facts. You yourself are the human, your chimp is the emotional
thinking machine, and your computer is your storage and automatic functioning
machine.
You know how sometimes
you’ll be in two minds about something? Apparently that’s because you really
are. Both the human part of the brain and the chimp receive information and
they each interpret it. The chimp goes with feelings and impressions, pretty
much basing its conclusion on assumptions, hunches, paranoia and defense. The
human searches for facts and truth and logic. So obviously they don’t see eye
to eye on everything. To further complicate matters the chimp is the stronger
part of the brain. So wrestling with your chimp is futile.
Think about it. How
well do you fare if you’re out to dinner, super hungry, and your first impulse
is the order a cheeseburger although you know you should have a salad? Sometimes
the salad wins, but think about the process that goes into that. A salad is healthier, your human brain
thinks. The chimp is going Cheeseburger!
Cheeseburger! Cheeseburger! The human can counter with an argument: The doctor will put me on meds to lower my
cholesterol if I don’t control my eating. The chimp might not like meds, or
extra doctor trips to make sure those meds aren’t harming its liver, it might
listen to that. If you’ve already established that scenario. Since I don’t have
high cholesterol, my chimp just keeps shouting for the cheeseburger and is now eyeballing
a chocolate shake too. My pants are too
tight, the human says, and I hate
tight jeans in the summer! Plus it looks terrible, and red meat makes me feel
sick later. That worked for me, especially since I read through the tasty
ingredients in a salad and caught my chimp’s interest.
What really caught my
interest and held it throughout this book were the suggestions for ways to
control the chimp—ways to get what the human wants and needs while keeping your
chimp happy. It was a bit
inspirational to be given encouragement to keep my
chimp happy. My chimp loves dessert and I’m trying to get into shape. During my
vacation I managed to pacify my chimp’s cravings with a healthy makeshift
dessert consisting of a vegan coconut wrap filled with bits of dark chocolate, cocoa nibs and goji berries. It worked beautifully. It took about a half hour every
day to gnaw through it with my TMJ and my chimp was in bliss.
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This book also made me
watch other people with more interest as I watched for their chimps. I give it
four thumbs up, two from my human, and two from the chimp. It never hurts to
try to figure yourself out, especially if you’re struggling with fear,
addiction, or simply trying to get where you want to be in life.
A shout out to Jade for
telling me about this book. I don’t know why he thought of me in reference to
The Chimp Paradox, but my chimp is encouraging me not to ask. As for the rest
of you, please let me know what your inner chimp thinks about this take on the
brain. I’d love to hear from you!
So today I've been drafting a blog called "Spock Vs. PMS"
ReplyDeleteIt's essentially this blog.
Le Sigh.
Clone Brains.
We are so cool.
PMS will win. You must pacify it. I suggest the usual manners--chocolate, books, movies, world domination.
ReplyDeleteWe are.
Yeah, my chimp brain is a noisy sucker. I like the pacification theory, I usually try to kick my chimp to get him to shut it. He kicks harder.
ReplyDeleteI'll have to check this book out, sounds like a good one, esp for those with a chimp of the cerulean persuasion.
Hmph. My human brain checked out a long time ago. It's all chimp up in here now. (flings poo) ^_^
ReplyDeleteIt's definitely worth a look, Rob. I picked it up in ebook, and then decided I needed paperback too. :)
ReplyDeleteDMK - What I wonder is where the muse comes in?
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